It happens to everyone, but how you respond when you are lost makes all the difference. “Be with someone who inspires you and makes you be the best version of yourself.”~ Roy T. Bennett “Things right now feel like one giant test after another,” my client, Ron said. “I can barely stay focused for ten minutes…
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Turn Imagination Positive in 9 Steps
Our imagination can be used to imagine the negative, or we can turn our imagination toward the positive. “There will always be hurricanes.” ~ my son, Adam Schiffli I was enjoying a phone conversation with my son, Adam, listening to his warm voice and delighting in his news. After a few minutes, he announced he was…
What To Do When You Get The “Mean Reds”
The mean reds can rob us of our calm and creativity. “To venture causes anxiety, but not to venture is to lose one’s self.” ~ Søren Kierkegaard “The mean reds are horrible. Suddenly you’re afraid, and you don’t know what you’re afraid of. Do you ever get that feeling?” ~ Truman Capote‘s character,Holly Golightly, in Breakfast at Tiffany’s My client,…
The Anxiety of Change
Transformation can lead to the anxiety of change, even if the changes are inherently good. “Stress is an ignorant state. It believes that everything is an emergency.Nothing is that important.” ~ Natalie Goldberg My client, Trey, and I took advantage of a bright, unseasonably cool, summer day recently and decided to have our coaching session on foot….
How to Become Unforgettable
“Someone asked me, ‘What does it mean to be unforgettable?’ and I answered,‘Being unforgettable means having an absence that is felt just as muchas your presence.” ~ C. Joybell C. My cellphone rang a mile before the end of “the good service area” on the winding, mountain road. I debated whether to pick it up…
Dismantling Resentment
Dismantling resentment can be challenging, because we don’t always notice when it has built up. I met my client, Lauren, on the terrace of a swanky restaurant she chose for our first meeting. The day was warm and sunny, and it felt rejuvenating to be seated in the fresh air after a long winter cooped…
