“Deciding what not to do is as important as deciding what to do.”—Steve Jobs Have you ever heard of the term “Selective Attention?” We are told that survival as a creator or entrepreneur requires total, unblinking awareness of everything and everyone, all the time. We are told to analyze every market shift, track every competitor’s…
Greedy for an Exciting Life
“I think I’m greedy, but I’m not greedy for money—I think that can be a burden—I’m greedy for an exciting life.I want it to be exciting all the time….I can find excitement, I admit,in raindrops falling on a puddle and a lot of people wouldn’t. I intendto have it exciting until the day I fall…
Are We Addicted to Struggle?
Happy Friday, Gorgeous Creator! I am so glad you are here! “Man suffers only because he takes seriously what the gods made for fun.”—Alan Watts My client, Jon, asked if we could meet for lunch in Asheville, NC. He was flying in from Austin on a buddy’s plane and said he needed a face-to-face session….
The Surprising ROI of Self-Trust
Where are you hesitating in your life right now? When you look at the leap you haven’t taken, what story are you telling yourself? Is it that you don’t have the resources, the timing is off, or the market just isn’t in your favor? Or, if you get very quiet and honest, is the real…
Stay Wild With These 3 Practices
There is a dangerous myth in the world of business and art that tells us we cannot stay wild—that despite our creative spark, we must eventually grow up, settle down, and optimize every single inch of our lives. We are taught that to be truly successful, we must become highly efficient, predictable machines. But what…
Discover Your Drag Path & Set Yourself Free
If you’ve been on social media at all lately, you’ve probably come across the “drag path” trend, where creators share the messy, lingering trails left behind by their past struggles or burnout that are keeping them stuck. But drag paths are not just a fleeting internet trend—they are very real. They impact us physically, mentally,…
